What if life is only just a dream?
And what if it’s only a dream to play, and enjoy?
Imagine if the whole life is just a game!
A game where only those who enjoy it the most win.
Only the one who has fun can develop his avatar into his final form.
To achieve anything you have to enjoy it. It should be fun, otherwise, it’s just work and work is boring and we don’t do boring for long.
So with this in mind, I can look easily up to myself and say, the moment when something lost the fun factor, it was over.
No matter what, the end was near.
I was never willing to invest too long into something I didn’t like.
No matter the benefit, money, love, status, or XY, if it is no fun, you drop it.
And when I think about this, I also clearly understand that the programming is so anti-fun, that it sounds absurd.
Just think for a moment: school, work, institutions, government, super serious. No place for fun.
On the other side: think about the family, think about the normal family dinners, it’s super serious.
Think about relationships, it all started because you had some fun, and then real life kicked in. Like wtf happened? How can we be this?
It’s all about getting shit done, appointments, money, growth, development, plans, etc…
I’m not against this, even super pro, but I think we are missing something.
Missing something big time!
And that’s these little moments in between all of this stuff, that’s the spontaneous ideas, the openness, and the treating of ourselves and letting down the expectations of perception.
To act to be liked, is not to be
I think as a child we never had a problem having real fun, like super fun all the time. That’s why time was so irrelevant because we measured it with fun and not with hours.
I’m pretty sure, that this part of losing fun all starts, when we start to not be our authentic version anymore. The moment when the taboos get into our life, the moment when we start playing the status game.
If you are true to yourself, then you have the confidence to be and even become a child again.
When was the last time you really celebrated something?
When you got up from your desk and started telling a joke, out of nowhere? When was the last time, you surprised your partner?
When was the last time you did something crazy?
When was the last time, you overdressed?
When was the last time, you put on a show for everyone else?
When was the last time, you played with your kids, like crazy?
When was the last time, you played with your partner?
Does it all need to be so serious?
Does it all need to be so strict?
Does it all need to be so stiff?
Why can’t we just throw a party?
Why can’t we just play the whole night, video games?
Why can’t we just go for a run?
Why can’t we go party?
Why can’t we get drunk?
Why can’t we just take drugs?
Why do we need to be normal?
Why do we need to do all the same?
What is the reason behind that?
You know the crazy thing: No GOAT is just normal!
No super-successful man or woman is just normal.
Crazy, Toys, Stories, People, Fun!
Why can’t I have fun and be successful?
Why can’t I have a super crazy life and have a family?
Why can’t I be happy and loving?
Why do we need to be so strict with each other?
Why do we need to put labels, and restrict ourselves and others?
Is this really the way it should be?
Are we taking ourselves too seriously?
Am I playing the dream?
More than yesterday, less than tomorrow.